Preparation

• Sabrina, bride's maid's hair and makeup
• Mike, groomsmen, wedding planner, photographer and videographer leave Hyatt in limos for Sabrina's house

Ceremony

• Mike and groomsmen enter Sabrina's house
• Mike and groomsmen are served tea by Sabrina's sister-in-law
• Mike and groomsmen proceed upstairs to get Sabrina
• Bridesmaids ask questions and force Mike and groomsmen to earn access to Sabrina
• Mike takes Sabrina downstairs
• Bai Bai ceremony at Sabrina's house - paying respect to Sabrina's ancestors
• Mike and Sabrina pay respect to Sabrina's mother
• Sabrina's mother covers Sabrina with the bridal veil
• Mike takes Sabrina from the house, while the matchmaker covers Sabrina's head with a rice threshing basket
• Sabrina and Mike leave and go to the Hyatt; as they go, Sabrina throws a fan from the car; this helps the bride leave behind her bad temper.

Homecoming

• Mike's family and friends are waiting in the suite in the Hyatt
• Mike and Sabrina serve tea to Mike's parents - signifying their respect and servitude toward his family
• Mike takes Sabrina to the bridal chamber and uncovers her veil
• Mike' parents leave red envelope in the empty tea cups
• The matchmaker serves sweet soup to Sabrina - signifying hope for an early pregnancy

Banquet

• Guests arrive
• Traditional western ceremony proceeds
• Speech by the General, representing the head of Sabrina's family
• Ring exchange
• Parent's speeches
• Dinner and music start
• After the second course, bride and groom leave to the suite
• Bride and groom change to traditional Chinese dress
• Bride and groom enters ballroom, led by traditional matchmaker
• Dancing and drumming entertainment
• Speeches by best man, maid of honor, bride's maid, groomsman and groom
• Bride, groom and parents go to each table to toast with guests
• After the final course, the bride and groom go to the door to give a gift to each guest as they leave

Late Evening

• Cocktail reception for anyone who didn’t get enough to drink - the after party!